Broken Heart Help – 5 Things to Remember About Dating Guys
No one likes to do it but everyone does. Whether you enjoy dating or find it stressful and horrible, or if you are just trying to mend your broken heart, you know that if you are ever going to find the one person who can stop your dating life forever, you have to do it. Girls, you simply have to date guys if you are ever going to find the perfect one for you. Ladies, here is some tips to help you along.
To date guys successfully we can break some dating tips down in to five important tips. They are:
1. Men are not women. While girls like to shop at the mall trying on tons of clothes, guys do not like to hang at the mall. It’s difficult to even drag them there if they need something. Instead use this time to hang out with the girls.
2. Men are not women. They do not want to hear endless talk about your relationship and what is wrong with it, they do not want to consistently hear about your feelings. It’s important to find the right time to talk about your relationship otherwise he will not listen to you. Take note to never talk about your relationship in front of yours or his friends, this will most likely lead to an embarrassing argument. And when discussing your relationship with him, never, never, ever compared your ex to him.
3. Men are not women. They do not like to see you show up at their door in your ratty old jeans with no make up on. Trust me on this one. Maybe later – way later, like after the kids become teenagers – it will be okay for this kind of thing to happen. For now, to keep your man interested – please girls, put something nice on like a beautiful shirt and a cute skirt or jeans and continue to take care of yourself.
4. Men are not women. Do not take out your cell and begin texting your friends right in front of him, guys do not like that. While it’s nice that you want to keep in touch with your friends, when you are on a date your man should be top on your list. He deserves you to give him your undivided attention. Texting or talking on your cell while you are on a date is just plain rude. Your date should never feel like he doesn’t have your full attention.
5. Men are not women. Guys are not entertained by hurtful and interesting gossip about others, they will not giggle about it with you. According to the male half of the population, who can come up with the most hurtful rumor is nothing to be proud of. Guy do not gossip like girls do, so it is definitely not cool to talk about one of his friends with a rumor that might not be true. Save this kind of talk for the girls over drinks one night.
Remembering when dating guys, these five most important tips with get you much farther. You will also get more then one date with the same guys if you follow these 5 important tips. There are lots of people who will offer you lots of advice about dating, and even some who will simply say, “Be yourself”.
That is not terrible advice, but trust me, if being yourself includes any of the forbidden behavior in the five most important things to remember when dating guys list, don’t be yourself. Be better. Remember these five most important things about dating guys and you will be able to mend your broken heart and have a better dating life.
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